Feeling especially ignorant here.

I cannot find torque specs for our cars. I've found some of the scattered info such as the torque for the wheel bolts and the toe links, but where is the information for all the various fasteners on the car? I can't even find the torque specs for spark plugs for heaven's sake.
I've already searched the technical section of the Forum. I've searched the owner's manual, service notes, and parts manuals. I'm willing to admit to being half-blind some days, but I'm at a total loss with this. Any help out there?
