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First thing I would do is to not let your dealer prep the vehicle. If you do, there's a good chance that once their wax starts to fade away, the swirls that they could have put in and the wax was hiding will start to appear.
Clay is a good idea if necessary. Mothers, Griots, Blue Clay Magic, Zaino, etc are good products to use. Just make sure it isn't something like the red Clay Magic, which is the abrasive type and more keen for removal of paint overspray. A great way to tell if you need to clay, is to slip a ziplock baggie of your finger, and gently feel the surface of the paint. Industrial fallout or other impurities will be magnified to touch ten fold.
Modern paints cure practically right away, so no need to fear working on it right away. If the car has swirls and this bothers you, a light polishing may be in order. Otherwise, I wouldn't do much more than a light chemical cleaner if there are any touchups needed. But really, this is brand new paint! It should be in great shape with no conditioning required.
A pure glaze, like Meguiars #7 for example, basically contains lots of oils and fillers to make your paint shine and to hide blemishes. They really give your paint a wet, deep look, but don't last very long. Pure glazes have minimal or no polishing abilities (ability to remove blemishes). If you are using a carnauba wax, then you'd apply the wax after you've applied the glaze. I love carnaubas but they don't last too long.
Some polishes contain glaze qualities as well as cleaning properties. Depends on the product. P12S Gloss Enhancing Plaint Cleaner for example can remove very minor blemishes, clean the paint surface a bit, and leave a nice glossy finish that obviates you the need to use a glaze afterwards. If you use a product like this, you could go directly to a wax.
Finally, certain synthetic toppers require "naked" paint for application, so remember to read directitons (Zaino, Klasse, etc).
Most Important Tip: Get the detailing out of the way ASAP, so you can get to driving!!!